As I am concerned I feel that the children can solve all the problems in one’s marriage life. As you know they are the ones who need the parents most. If you have the mind of a child one will surely forgive the better half for all the problems and they will surely start beautiful life for their lovely kids. As you know the kids are the ones who suffer most in this and one should surely find time to solve the problem between husband and wife. Most of the problems are silly and one can... more
Marriage is the kind of mental union and here the two minds must be united forever and not only physically. If at all the minds are not united then various problems would occur on all levels. Hence flirting is the process of instigating romance by making others to feel for the same. Hence a man who flirts after the marriage is not a fine process as it involves a lot of problems. Hence he should process many talents not doing so and he should concentrate on his spouse for everything. One day in his... more
If you feel that your marriage is falling apart there are many things that you can do. First of all, I would ask yourself if this is something that you are overreacting or a major aspect in your relationship that there is no way for you to get over in the future. If you feel that you are stuck and cannot fix this situation by yourself, I would suggest that you either have a talk with your boyfriend or girlfriend or go seek marriage counseling. This will help you to go over the problems that are... more
When one’s friend is making quarrels with you can be sure that she is very bothered about something. As she is the one who knows more about you she will get worried about your attitude towards others. As you know girls are the ones who really want your support in every single matter. If you show consideration to others she is the one who gets more bothered about it. When one sees the odd behavior of a friend feel free to discuss the matter with her itself. At first she may not tell you the... more
One should surely discuss the matter with one’s spouse and one should surely take him with you for counseling. We both had attended counseling classes and I feel that this is necessary for one’s healthy behavior and attachment. When it is the case of one’s family everyone has the need to attend this. However all these helps in open talks among family members and one feel free to talk about all the matters to one’s spouse. I think that this is necessary to have a good family... more
Improving your marriage without talking about it is possible, but it can be quite difficult. In order to improve a relationship, you need to first know what the problems are. Many couples have different ideas about what the problems are in their particular relationship, so they may not be able to improve anything, since they would both be working on different problems. For instance, one might think they don’t spend enough time together, while the other may think he or she is just mad because... more
I believe that it is always a great idea to take couples therapy before getting married. A lot of people believe that couple therapy is only for people with big problems, on the verge of splitting up, but that is a common misconception. Going to couples therapy is a great idea before taking that next, huge, step in your lives. You can talk about hopes, fear, and any and everything in between. If you have any kinks in the relationship, you can work those out before making the commitment. Another great... more
A very simple answer to this question would be no. But there exist many complications to this problem. Marriage is an institution which, in the recent years is know to breakdown often. Marriage counseling is now a multi million dollar business. Almost every married couple have fights once in a while. Some very silly and pointless, some very serious and hateful. No couple desires that outsiders come and intrude in their problems. But, certain interferences and intrusions happen for the good of it.... more
We all go through times when we feel a little less emotional attached to our partners, if you are starting to see these trends in your partner the first most important thing to do is communicate about it. Now talking about it might not always give you the solutions to the problems, if they tell you the reasons of why they less emotional attached you have to fix the problems. Not always an easy task to change your ways once they have become a common part of your relationship, but always important... more
You may often come across married couples getting into heated arguments either soon after their marriage, or after some time. These arguments often lead to many problems that may even drag them to the doorsteps of Court for a divorce. In many cases, there may be family members from both sides to intervene whenever trouble erupts between the couple. While in some cases, such attempts may prove fruitful and help in solving their problems amicably, in others it may only end up in further aggravating... more
