Every marriage is different, because every couple is different…because every PERSON is just a little bit different. So why do we all try to force our marriages to work exactly the same? Most people get married and try to fall in to the roll of Perfect Spouse- we become dedicated, clingy, and in many cases, completely miserable because we’re play acting. The key to a successful marriage is honesty with our spouses and ourselves. Most couples would be a lot happier if they had a bit... more
A couple may or may not feel that their families should have a say in how they raise their children. Most people would say that yes, a family should have a say in how two people raise their children. While the advice of the family may not always be followed, it should at least be considered. After all, the grandparents of that child raised the parents of that child. This, of course, depends on the family members who are giving the child-raising advice. If they are distant relatives, they shouldn’t... more
It’s very hard to make a relationship, but quite simple to break it. Most people experience a bad relationship in their life at some stage and either feel happy to come out of it quickly or remain sad over what has happened. It’s easy to know that you are stuck in a relationship because most things take a reverse action in such an affinity. For example, if your significant other or best friend starts behaving in an indifferent manner, you may get the feeling that you’re stuck in... more
To determine what kind of person is the “marrying” type depends on the personality of the person they would be marrying. Everyone has different personalities, so everyone has different types of people they are attracted to. There are a few qualities most people would want in someone they marry, however. First of all, when people decide to get married, they are committing to someone for a long-term relationship. If they didn’t want this, they wouldn’t decide to marry in... more
If you are having an emotional affair with someone, it may turn physical soon. It is dangerous to pour your heart out to a person that is not your spouse because they may have a biased opinion on your situation. If you really thing about it, you are involved with your spouse because of being emotionally attached so if you become emotionally attached with another person then that could lead to other things. Most people do have friends of the opposite sex that they confide in which is fine. But when... more
Each individual has a different idea of what the perfect spouse would be like. While there are countless wonderful qualities a person can possess, you need to sit down and think about what traits are most important to you. Some common desired personality traits include: Humor– Life has ups and downs, and it makes a big difference if you can laugh along the way. Honesty– The ability to talk openly about feelings, as well as feel trust in your relationship is of utmost importance. Hard-Working–... more
Many people who want a monogamous relationship base their feelings on the Judeo-Christian ideology that the United States of America was founded on. Many people think it is the right thing to do after being with the same person for a number of years or after time. Most people think that being in an exclusive relationship gives them a sense of security and feel like it is a life long commitment regardless of what happens during the duration of the relationship. Most people feel like being in a commitment... more
