Marriage is an amazing commitment, and you may not feel comfortable with making that promise yet, or deep down, you may not feel like your girlfriend is the right one. After thinking about why you may feel insecure, I recommend sitting down and having a conversation with her, describing your feelings.
Be honest and open, telling her what you are insecure about. Are your fears emotionally, financially, or physically based? Is it something she can help you change? If so, working together will... more
October 17, 2011
We all act in front of others most of the times. Nobody can be deadly honest with anybody if they need to survive in this world. So, there is no point in worrying once you have found that you have fallen in love with somebody despite you are still married to another person. But please see to it that you are prepared to take responsibility for the eventual complications that will arise from this liaison. You should be aware that this secret relationship when exposed can surely shatter your image in... more
August 4, 2011
Getting engaged is a very serious commitment. By agreeing to an engagement proposal, you are saying that you plan to spend the rest of your life with this one special person. If your boyfriend wants to get engaged, but you do not feel ready yet, it is important to be honest, yet gentle about the situation. Your boyfriend will probably feel rejected after going out on a limb and being denied his wish. Despite the difficulties of saying no to a proposal, if you are not ready, then it is the right move.... more
July 14, 2011
The relationship between a husband and a wife is totally different from all other relationships. It is one affinity where you happen to share anything and everything with your wife, and vice-versa. But then, how many husbands are true and honest, or at least try to be so, to their wives? A negligible few. This question is not raised to justify the wrongdoings of wives in any manner, but to see if you are clean in the first place before expecting your wife to be so. Most husbands cannot even imagine... more
June 13, 2011
The best way to make your husband feel comfortable with your sexual needs is to be completely honest. If you are hones with him then he can be completely honest with you. This is what makes a relationship work and should be practiced by all in a relationship. If you tell your husband what you like or what you need then it will be a lot more likely that he will do it. Otherwise you will be waiting a very long time for him to figure it out for himself. By this time you may have grown impatient with... more
May 29, 2011
Confronting your wife about suspected cheating is a very difficult thing to do. If you are absolutely positive your wife is cheating on you then it is best to be honest with her in hopes she will be honest with you. The reason that honesty is the best policy is because it will make the situation easier to resolve if this is possible. You may also find out that you have misinterpreted what she is doing and she is not cheating on you. However maybe your suspicions are correct, in which case you should... more
April 28, 2011
Marriage is a partnership between two people. It’s going to take work, but it’s about knowing that person is worth it. It is an agreement to love, honor and cherish that person for the rest of your life. Till death do us part. It’s being with the person that you can’t be without, and not wanting to be with anyone else. It’s about growing old with them. It’s trusting them, being honest with them and growing together. It’s about happiness, friendship, respect,... more
April 23, 2011
If you and your boyfriend have been together for around a year, he may want to move in with you. Around this time, he may start dropping hints. In the course of your conversations, he will probably say things like “This would be a lot easier if we just lived together,” or “I wish I could see you all the time.” These are small phrases he can use to see how you would react to the idea of living together.
He may also spend more time at your house, or invite you to his house... more
March 22, 2011
Trust is one of the hardest things to get back into a relationship once it is broken. To regain the trust will take a lot of time and effort. You are basically building your relationship from scratch and that will be a very hard thing to do. Try to be more open to your husband and ensure him that you want to be with him and only him. Depending on the way you broke his trust will have an effect on how you want to gain his trust again. For example, if you cheated on him then you may at first have... more
February 28, 2011
