Marriage is often said to be hell. People make it out to be complete torture everyday. I say that is a load of crap. Marriage is different from being in a regular boyfriend girlfriend relationship. For instance, you have to make any and every decision together now. You have to take care of another person and always keep what they want in mind. Because of this people will feel trapped and like they are not living the way they want to. These people should have never been married. When the relationship... more
December 10, 2011
If you are in a relationship with someone and you are not sure whether or not you can trust him again, I would suggest approaching him directly to talk about the issue at hand. Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship and if you do not trust someone, you cannot maintain a bond. Typically, trust will take time to retain if you lost it due to cheating so I urge you to be as patient as possible and let the process take care of itself. On his end, you will have to understand that... more
October 31, 2011
If you are in a relationship with someone and you are not sure whether or not you should marry him, there are several things that you can ask yourself to determine whether or not he is the one. I would suggest thinking about your life twenty years from now and the family that you will have. If you see him in your life as your husband and are happy with that, I suggest that you are with someone that has great marriage potential. If you just view this person as someone who you want to date but are... more
October 30, 2011
You can say about your engagement when your parents are happy or feeling proud of you and they should be in a condition of asking that what you want from us. And do something which will make your parents proud and make a situation that your parents will ask you about your need and at what time say that I love a girl/boy and I have been engaged with the person and I will like to marry him/her. All parents will try to make their children happy and parents will accept your request because all the people... more
September 28, 2011
If at all you want to keep your affair secret from not exposing to your spouse you should first make her happy on all times. This is because most of the spouses would start to think about you deeply when you make them to feel something. Hence, it is the duty of yours to understand the spouse on all aspects. Try to keep your mouth shut on all times even when you are very close to her physically as some people start bluffing to their spouse and this would make them to get the idea of you and they can... more
September 10, 2011
I understand how you feel, would you feel like a failure if you didn’t make it work because that is not how it should be. Failing is not staying true to what makes you happy. However, maybe you need counseling, BOTH of you.
If he is not willing to make it work then consider leaving, for me love comes in waves, sometimes I feel like leaving but am always grateful I didn’t.
I don’t understand sweetheart, why can’t you leave, no one has to put up with anything they don’t... more
August 6, 2011
There isn’t an average on how much sex is healthy in a marriage. You and your spouse should work with your sexual uniqueness to find something that works for both of you. It is very common for the number of times you have sex a week to change greatly depending on what is going on in your life. Sometimes one partner is just not feeling up to having sex. How many times you have sex a week does not determine how happy you are as a couple. What matters is what works for you in your life. If you... more
August 1, 2011
In most situations it’s uncommon to feel happy when you are not with your partner. However, certain situations can force a person to feel happy that way.
If a person feels happy every time without his/her partner around, then it certainly is an indication of a bad relationship. Constant arguments and fights stress a person’s mind. So that person feels good when the cause for such arguments is not around. However, this is not a good sign and needs to be looked into. Another reason... more
July 30, 2011
There are some people who wonder if their spouse or significant other is with them mostly due to children that they had together. Such questions often arise in someone’s mind if they are in a relationship with someone who hardly ever talks to them and spends a large amount of time away from home. This does not necessarily mean they are having an affair, but it could be an indication that they do not want to be around the person they are in a relationship with.
This is not always a beneficial... more
July 27, 2011
After a couple gets engaged, they are usually happy at first due to the joyous occasion. This happiness can last for a few weeks as they tell friends and family about the engagement. Telling these individuals about an engagement typically leads to more excitement, as the event is discussed more and congratulations are given out.
Later on in an engagement, however, stress can lead to arguments in a relationship. As the planning process for a wedding progresses, couples can argue over small issues,... more
July 16, 2011
