Just remember, you two are just separated and not divorced yet. Even now, you two can reconcile for your mutual benefit and that of the benefit of the children you may have. When even two enemy nations can unite, why not you two, who happened to live together for some years before you took a decision to separate. The main cause of misunderstanding is ego and when you realize this fact, maybe you can save the marriage. But if you feel that nothing can help your marriage other than separation,... more
December 6, 2011
It is always difficult to apologize. Apologizing is to admit that you were wrong, are sorry, and wish to make amends. If you are continually hurting someone, that would make the task of apologizing that much harder. Actions speak louder than words. The best thing you can do in this case, is to try your best to stop hurting the other person. Whether intentional or unintentional, hurting another person is wrong and you have to do your best to right that wrong! First, you should examine why you... more
December 1, 2011
Girls sleeping with girls. Is it cheating? So many men have dreams of seeing their girlfriend in the bed with another girl. But is this what they really want? At first the idea of your girlfriend being with another girl may seem like the best thing that has ever happened to you. But the chances that this feeling will last are quite slim. Cheating is cheating, no matter how you look at it, and even sleeping with the same sex is cheating. And what if she does this without your knowledge? Anything that... more
October 18, 2011
It is not necessary that your spouse should know all the little things that you did all the day. There are some who wish to speak these to their spouse. But the truth is that they are not at all interested in hearing all these. If you just keep on chattering, they will get bored and they will not listen to the important things that had happened. So make sure that you speak only about the important things that had happened. By speaking about the daily happenings it is possible that a strong relationship... more
September 7, 2011
First try to find out the reason why your spouse needs a divorce. There are chances that people go for divorce even if they have minute problems in their relationship. So if it is such a thing and can be mended, try it and assure that it will never happen again. Marriage is not a funny thing that can be ended all of a sudden. You need strong reasons if you want to discontinue the relationship. You have to try as much as possible to get along with each other. Only if you are able to forgive and forget... more
August 31, 2011
Some people do not give children enough credit for knowing what is going on as well as being strong enough to handle whatever it is. If you are separating, the best thing to do is to have a family meeting where you and your spouse tell the children together. By presenting a united front and assuring them that they will still have both parents in their lives, it will be much easier for the children to accept. Often, children feel they are the reason for a separation or they feel they will lose a parent... more
August 23, 2011
If you feel that the family of your significant other doesn’t like you, the best thing to do is be yourself and hope that they like you over time. Trying to act differently around them will only make you feel worse about their perceived feelings toward you.
Of course, there is a possibility that the family does like you, and you are just assuming that they have dislike toward you out of fear and nervousness. When you haven’t known someone for awhile, it is difficult to comprehend what... more
August 15, 2011
It’s hard to choose sides in any argument, especially when the argument is between your spouse, and your family members. It’s also hard when insults that are made about your spouse, are coming from your family. The best thing to do is to sit your family down. Let them know that this is your wife, and that you love her very much. She may not be perfect, but neither are the members of your family. Everyone makes mistakes. Do let them know that you aren’t going to stand for the insults... more
April 1, 2011
If you have a wife who does not communicate, the best way to get her to communicate is to communicate with her first. Some people just do not talk much. This is sometimes an issue of privacy, and maybe she is a very private person. As long as she is not hiding huge secrets from you, like a big financial problem or an affair, this shouldn’t be too bad. There is a trust issue involved, however, with her keeping secrets from you.
The best thing to do is talk to her about the problem. Don’t... more
March 24, 2011
