If you are in a relationship with someone and you believe that you are pulling away or not showing the type of effort that the person deserves, I suggest you strongly consider taking some time off from that person until you get yourself in check. One of the worst things that you can do is stay with this person and continues to push them away until they cannot take it anymore and move on to someone else. Try to think about how this person makes you feel and understand the consequences emotionally... more
November 29, 2011
I understand how you feel, would you feel like a failure if you didn’t make it work because that is not how it should be. Failing is not staying true to what makes you happy. However, maybe you need counseling, BOTH of you.
If he is not willing to make it work then consider leaving, for me love comes in waves, sometimes I feel like leaving but am always grateful I didn’t.
I don’t understand sweetheart, why can’t you leave, no one has to put up with anything they don’t... more
August 6, 2011
When you are truly in love you can never actually fall out of love. Often times though, when you are going through hard times with your significant other, you will begin to feel like maybe you do not love him anymore. This is not the case. The truth is, your thoughts have been so clouded by what has been happening presently, whether it is him pushing you away or frequent fighting, that you push the love that you have for him deep inside. If you wish to bring that love back to the surface, you have... more
July 12, 2011
It making your wife agree for all the things that you say about your divorce. Actually no wife will easily accept to have the no fault divorce. Its saying to the judge that there is no fault in both of us but we want to have our divorce. Say to you wife that “I don’t want to live with you anymore” that situation will arise only when you two does not have a good chemistry. And if she have the same feeling she will ask what will you give for the divorce. You just give the choice to... more
July 9, 2011
Feeling unappreciated in a marriage is not an ideal experience. You may feel the excite or “spark” of your relationship with your husband dwindle some time after marriage and you may get the feeling he doesn’t care about you anymore. This is a problem that shouldn’t be avoided and should be resolved as soon as possible in order to maintain a healthy marriage.
The first thing you should do is: talk with your husband. Have him sit down, maybe during dinner or somewhere private... more
June 16, 2011
If you have been betrayed by a loved one who has cheated on you and your marriage, it may be difficult to know where to turn. How can I save my marriage after I found that I am being cheated on? The first important question you need to answer for yourself is whether you want to save your marriage or move on. If you want to save your marriage, there are a lot of things you can do to get started. First of all, confront your partner about what you know. Get these issues out on the table for discussion... more
May 29, 2011
Many boyfriends/husbands complain that their girlfriends/wives are not interested in sex anymore. You need to be understanding to your girlfriends needs. I found that when I was doing all of the house work that I wasn’t as loving. I was actually a little bitter about it and just plain tired on top of that. Surprise her take her out to dinner and buy her flowers. Talk to her during dinner, ask how she is feeling. She may be feeling as though you don’t care about her just sex right now.... more
May 7, 2011
It’s hard to choose sides in any argument, especially when the argument is between your spouse, and your family members. It’s also hard when insults that are made about your spouse, are coming from your family. The best thing to do is to sit your family down. Let them know that this is your wife, and that you love her very much. She may not be perfect, but neither are the members of your family. Everyone makes mistakes. Do let them know that you aren’t going to stand for the insults... more
April 1, 2011
Splitting up is never an easy thing to do especially when there are kids involved. However, it is not illegal or wrong if you happen to not be in love with your wife anymore. You can still love your daughter and maintain a great relationship should there happen to be a separation. I have seen many methods in splitting up and it hasn’t been good. The best way to split is the adult way. Have a face to face conversation with your wife and let her know exactly how you feel. Make her understand... more
March 29, 2011
