Deeper Than Dating http://www.deeperthandating.com Tue, 20 Dec 2011 22:00:02 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 How can I stop feeling such anger and resentment towards my wife? http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-can-i-stop-feeling-such-anger-and-resentment-towards-my-wife/ http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-can-i-stop-feeling-such-anger-and-resentment-towards-my-wife/#comments Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 deeperthandating http://www.deeperthandating.com/?p=926 First of all, if you love your wife you will not get anger on her. The long lasting love will overcome the angry part of a person, which will make your wife more important to you than your anger. You must first feel that pain which she would undergo from the words said by you and the hurting that you do to her. To overcome your anger start to love her much more than what you do presently. Try to find out her likings and give her surprises on which you will get much closer to her heart. Thereby, she will try to listen to your words whatever you say. This will make you feel comfortable with your wife as she is listening to you and this will ensure a raise in the love for her in you. Resentment is probably a real or an imagination, which would have occurred due to incidents, which may be true or fake. The only thing that can get you out of this is belief. Believing your wife is much important than believing in you in a married life. So believe her and then you will be out of your anger and resentment or will stop it completely.

]]> http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-can-i-stop-feeling-such-anger-and-resentment-towards-my-wife/feed/ 0 What do I do if I just found my boyfriends photo and profile on a casual sex dating site? http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/what-do-i-do-if-i-just-found-my-boyfriends-photo-and-profile-on-a-casual-sex-dating-site/ http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/what-do-i-do-if-i-just-found-my-boyfriends-photo-and-profile-on-a-casual-sex-dating-site/#comments Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 deeperthandating http://www.deeperthandating.com/?p=925 If you just found your boyfriend’s profile and photo on a casual sex dating site, you should definitely confront your man with the information that you have discovered. Cheating in a relationship is unacceptable, and you have a right to be angry about his Internet sex dating site profile. Before you confront your boyfriend, either make a copy of the web page, or be sure to have the dating profile open on your laptop for him to see. Often, boyfriends might deny that the profile even exists if you do not present them with concrete evidence. After you show him the sex dating profile and ask him why he created it, he can either lie to you by denying that the dating profile is his, or he can completely confess and beg for your forgiveness. If he begins to deny that he created the page, look for telltale signs that your boyfriend is lying, such as avoiding looking into your eyes and touching his hair a lot. No matter what his reaction is to your discovery, it is ultimately up to you to decide whether you will remain his girlfriend.

]]> http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/what-do-i-do-if-i-just-found-my-boyfriends-photo-and-profile-on-a-casual-sex-dating-site/feed/ 0 How do I get my son to listen to my new wife? http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-do-i-get-my-son-to-listen-to-my-new-wife/ http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-do-i-get-my-son-to-listen-to-my-new-wife/#comments Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 deeperthandating http://www.deeperthandating.com/?p=924 It has become very fine and most impressive to teach your son on the importance of your wife whom you married last. He has to understand the importance of motherhood first and never ever force him to listen. But you can teach him gradually and never punish or scold him on first hand scale as it would improve the enmity in large amount. However, the seriousness of the old mother would be longing in the heart of your son and hence you may find it very difficult to cope with the new wife. Also it is the main duty of your wife to behave kindly towards your son as he may have negative thoughts on his step mother always and it is natural. Hence you should always treat your son on par with the second wife and never ever sold or beat him in front of your new wife as these factors would bring hell lots of issues and he would never turn right. Hence you have to be very patience and kind in doing these.

]]> http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-do-i-get-my-son-to-listen-to-my-new-wife/feed/ 0 How do I find out for sure if my girlfriend is cheating or hiding something from me? http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-do-i-find-out-for-sure-if-my-girlfriend-is-cheating-or-hiding-something-from-me/ http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-do-i-find-out-for-sure-if-my-girlfriend-is-cheating-or-hiding-something-from-me/#comments Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 deeperthandating http://www.deeperthandating.com/?p=923 When you have a girlfriend, you are likely to develop your own opinion about her soon after you start the relationship. In most cases, the affinity starts on a bright note because initially you tend to remain blind, mainly because you may get more attracted by your girlfriend’s physical features when compared to her behavioral attitude. It’s only after you happen to move with her for some time that you actually start knowing about her from close quarters. It’s very easy to find out if your girlfriend is cheating on you, or if she is really hiding something from you. As a first step, see if she is behaving the same way when she began her relations with you, or if there is anything strange in her approach of late. If so, you can count that as the first signs of betrayal. Then, try to get access to her mobile to see if there are any unusual text messages to her, particularly from a boy. Also, find out if she is trying to move away from you to attend any incoming call. This means she wants to avoid you while talking to an important person, who may well be the influencing force on her to cheat you. Finally, see how she reacts when you ask her about the changes that you notice in her. If the reaction is delayed and she goes in search of words, it’s very clear she is trying to hide something from you. On the other hand, if she is casual in her approach you need to wait for some more time.

]]> http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-do-i-find-out-for-sure-if-my-girlfriend-is-cheating-or-hiding-something-from-me/feed/ 0 Do you know of any good sexual positions for overweight couples? http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/do-you-know-of-any-good-sexual-positions-for-overweight-couples/ http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/do-you-know-of-any-good-sexual-positions-for-overweight-couples/#comments Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 deeperthandating http://www.deeperthandating.com/?p=920 Overweight couples cannot enjoy all sex positions as an ideal couple does. However there are some effective techniques for overweight couples too. I would rate modified yab-yum as an ideal sex position for them. Their huge bellies will never trouble them in achieving sex. The guy can sit over any flat surface with his legs slightly apart. The girl sits over the guy with her butt near the guy’s penis. As the girl is bit heavy, it would be better if she stands with her legs bent firmly. This will make the guy to carry comparatively a lesser load. For more support and comfort, the guy can sit very much closer to the wall which enables the girl to rest her back on the wall and will enable the girl to remain stern and erect. The guy can bring in more force my pushing the girl’s butt with his hand. On the whole, yab-yum sex position will definitely please the hearts of fleshy and stout couples.

]]> http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/do-you-know-of-any-good-sexual-positions-for-overweight-couples/feed/ 0 How do dating couples keep a great sex life before getting married? http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-do-dating-couples-keep-a-great-sex-life-before-getting-married/ http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-do-dating-couples-keep-a-great-sex-life-before-getting-married/#comments Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 deeperthandating http://www.deeperthandating.com/?p=919 When you date someone, it’s natural that you get so intimate that you exchange everything between each other starting from emotions to sex. In fact, sex makes you remain stronger as dating couples because you feel one-in-one when you involve in sexual pleasure. But at the same time, sex can only help you to that extent where it will leave you firm and determined before marriage. Once you get married, the equations may change very fast, and sex may not be as exciting or as interesting it was when you were dating each other. Remember, sex is not everything because once you get married you have a lot more things to share, unlike when you were engaged in dating. You take on more responsibilities as married couples and feel emotions taking an upper hand over matters such as sex. That’s why many couples try to be more emotionally attached beyond a period of time since getting married, although sex continues to remain part of their life.

]]> http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-do-dating-couples-keep-a-great-sex-life-before-getting-married/feed/ 0 How can we encourage couples to stay married? http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-can-we-encourage-couples-to-stay-married/ http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-can-we-encourage-couples-to-stay-married/#comments Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 deeperthandating http://www.deeperthandating.com/?p=918 One should have a mindset that marriage is a holy union of two souls and once it is done, it should not be separated for any reason. One should also realize that nobody is perfect and whenever there is a difference of opinion between the couples, the one who condescends and let the other one to win is the actual winner. When a couple is in the brink of separation and if you know both the people are good at soul, then you can actually intervene with their permission and you can help them realize that marriage is not something like a dress that can be thrown away if it gets damaged or fades in color but it is a blessed union of two souls that should actually stay together in times of stress and win over the crisis. Everybody will have a good habit and if you are familiar with the couple, you can help them realize the good thing in the other and how to capitalize on that good habit to save the marriage. Also, you can cite the children and how they would be affected mentally when their parents go through a separation. You can point out how the society will view people who are separated or divorced. Finally, if you feel you cannot help it, just fix an appointment with a marriage counselor.

]]> http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-can-we-encourage-couples-to-stay-married/feed/ 0 Does couples counseling work and is it effective in salvaging a marriage? http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/does-couples-counseling-work-and-is-it-effective-in-salvaging-a-marriage/ http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/does-couples-counseling-work-and-is-it-effective-in-salvaging-a-marriage/#comments Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 deeperthandating http://www.deeperthandating.com/?p=917 Yes, to a great extent, couples counseling does work and it works a magic on your mindset when you take part in it with interest. As an individual, everybody will have an opinion about themselves and on others. It is very difficult for us to change our mindset once we strongly believe in it. But, on counseling, you will get to know your negatives and your shortcomings better than self-analyzing. You cannot see your back but the other person can see. So, when a third person, after a careful deep observation, points out in a polished manner what you are missing and what you can do to overcome these shortcomings, you tend to accept it with open heart. Your ego will never let you accept your faults when it is pointed out by your spouse but when the same thing is done by a professional who you pay, you will believe in him and you will be prepared to abide by his words. Professional counseling definitely works in salvaging marriages without any doubt.

]]> http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/does-couples-counseling-work-and-is-it-effective-in-salvaging-a-marriage/feed/ 0 Do you think it’s cheating when soemone is dating both a boy and a girl? http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/do-you-think-its-cheating-when-soemone-is-dating-both-a-boy-and-a-girl/ http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/do-you-think-its-cheating-when-soemone-is-dating-both-a-boy-and-a-girl/#comments Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 deeperthandating http://www.deeperthandating.com/?p=915 When you date two different people, that itself is considered cheating. But when you date two different sexes at the same time, how can you consider it as a noble act? Dating does not mean you need someone to spend your time and share your fantasies. Dating does not mean you have freedom to involve a third person without the permission of your date. It involves emotional involvement and it requires commitment. If everything goes well, the next step to dating is love. As such, it is not a right thing to do when you are dating two people and that too of two different sexes. It will not be easy for both the persons involved when they get to know that you have cheated them both in the name of dating and playing with their emotions. It is not only cheating but also a crime. Dating involves honesty and it is your duty to be truthful to your date.

]]> http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/do-you-think-its-cheating-when-soemone-is-dating-both-a-boy-and-a-girl/feed/ 0 How do you make the first night together special between two people who are in love? http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-do-you-make-the-first-night-together-special-between-two-people-who-are-in-love/ http://www.deeperthandating.com/2011/12/how-do-you-make-the-first-night-together-special-between-two-people-who-are-in-love/#comments Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 deeperthandating http://www.deeperthandating.com/?p=913 For the newly married couples, first night is a very special and memorable day in their life. For that you have to first select a suitable location that suits you. It may be a hotel room or your house itself. The house suits more than others. In our religious belief, first night is conducted in bride’s home. You can make it feel and remember all their life time by:

Choose a very good and right place.
Decorate that room with flowers.
Put some flowers on the fan so that when they switch on the flowers will drop on their heads.
Keep them some eatables and water.
Milk is more important and it is our culture to give milk in bride’s hand when she goes into their room.
Keep their new night dresses.
Make the room something special to speed up their moods.
Leave them alone as quick as possible.
Make that night very memorable by sharing your mind and soul completely.

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