Be The Selector - Online Dating Profiles That Attract Women

Welcome to the 16th installment of the Deeper Than Dating Podcast Series.

This weeks podcast is from the Net2Bed/Net2Wed system. In it Grant explains that in any interaction there are two sides. The Selector and the Selected. Guess which one has the power? Guess which one you want to be? This is what is often called “controlling the frame” where you are inviting her into YOUR reality, not vice versa.

If you do not show definite boundaries as to what you want in your life, that is perceived as weak. If you give the idea that you’ll take anything from anyone, that is weak and unattractive. If you’re not SELECTING, you’re having to prove yourself worthy of being SELECTED by her. And that’s no way to start any kind of relationship, online or offline.

Click here to learn more about this PodCast and how to sharpen your attraction skills further.