Not all men freak out when they are encountered with a marriage plan. So, you need not be afraid just to open up the topic. When you two have a good understanding, then you need not be concerned about his reaction upon opening up marriage talk. If for some reason you believe that he might be worried about marriage, then you need to analyze as to why he would hate to talk about that and what are all the remedies that are available to make him comfortable. Among so many reasons that could be attributed, the main thing would be money. When a man does not have a good income or if he does not have a good job with security, he will feel insecure and at this juncture, he would not dare to involve himself in marriage which obviously will add to his list of responsibilities. When you help him arrive at a calculation about how you two can raise your income level and lead a comfortable life, he will definitely be interested in the topic. The next thing that would make him run away from marriage is having children and raising them. Again, money will play an important role in children upbringing and when you chart out a definite plan to raise your income, you will have no problem in bringing up marriage with him without making him freak out.
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