One should have a mindset that marriage is a holy union of two souls and once it is done, it should not be separated for any reason. One should also realize that nobody is perfect and whenever there is a difference of opinion between the couples, the one who condescends and let the other one to win is the actual winner. When a couple is in the brink of separation and if you know both the people are good at soul, then you can actually intervene with their permission and you can help them realize that marriage is not something like a dress that can be thrown away if it gets damaged or fades in color but it is a blessed union of two souls that should actually stay together in times of stress and win over the crisis. Everybody will have a good habit and if you are familiar with the couple, you can help them realize the good thing in the other and how to capitalize on that good habit to save the marriage. Also, you can cite the children and how they would be affected mentally when their parents go through a separation. You can point out how the society will view people who are separated or divorced. Finally, if you feel you cannot help it, just fix an appointment with a marriage counselor.
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