Everyone will be excited of having a baby. As you know this change makes us very busy and one may not find time for oneself after this. However this can be a problem in many homes. The main important thing is that everyone will adjust with this within a short period. You may have to face the problem that you are not considering your husband any more. I felt the same feeling when I had a baby. He used to say that I never took interest in him. It was then only I noted this. My child was fully dependent on me and I couldn’t even find time to sleep. I had to cook food when the baby was sleeping. I asked my husband who was not interested in this to watch the daily chores for me at home, office and for my little girl. After some days he adjusted with the change and was able to understand this. We couldn’t have a strong relationship during these days and he understood why I was avoiding him. However every one knows the drastic situations faced during this period and don’t feel angry to your baby as she is going to be your best friend. I had even prayed to get the baby to sleep and I have seen her eyes open when I felt great sleep. However my little girls have grown now and they are my best friends now.
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