If you are in a relationship with someone and you believe that you are pulling away or not showing the type of effort that the person deserves, I suggest you strongly consider taking some time off from that person until you get yourself in check. One of the worst things that you can do is stay with this person and continues to push them away until they cannot take it anymore and move on to someone else. Try to think about how this person makes you feel and understand the consequences emotionally if you were ever to break up with this person. I would sit down with the girl or guy that you are talking about and have a long talk with them to show them where you are coming from instead of hiding this feeling inside. Communication is very important in a relationship so it is important for him or her to know where you are coming from to determine where you are going. Good luck!
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