If you are in a relationship with someone and you are not sure whether or not you can trust him again, I would suggest approaching him directly to talk about the issue at hand. Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship and if you do not trust someone, you cannot maintain a bond. Typically, trust will take time to retain if you lost it due to cheating so I urge you to be as patient as possible and let the process take care of itself. On his end, you will have to understand... more
October 31, 2011
If you really want to have kids, you need to ask yourself if you are willing to settle for a relationship with someone who does not want to have kids. This will usually mean that you would never have kids if you stay in a relationship with this individual. If having kids is very important to you, you probably should not stay in a relationship with someone who doesn’t want to have them.
Of course, people can change their minds about wanting to have children. This can often happen if a friend... more
October 31, 2011
If you are in a relationship with someone and you are not sure whether or not you should marry him, there are several things that you can ask yourself to determine whether or not he is the one. I would suggest thinking about your life twenty years from now and the family that you will have. If you see him in your life as your husband and are happy with that, I suggest that you are with someone that has great marriage potential. If you just view this person as someone who you want to date but are... more
October 30, 2011
I personally believe that soul mates really do exist and that there is one person out there for everyone. Typically you will go through your life finding people that you connect with a little but it is a once in a lifetime experience when you find someone that is your soul mate. One of the most important things that you must realize is that you should not go out of your way to try to find a soul mate. I suggest that you continue dating the normal way and then when you find someone that can be... more
October 29, 2011
Meeting your long distance boyfriend again may really matter a lot for you. You only know the excellent time that you happened to spend with him when both of you were together during the previous occasion. You may be carrying all those memories with you as much as he must be doing so. It’s going to be a thrilling experience when you see him again this time because you may have a lot to share with him. The phone calls and text messages that both of you must have exchanged all these days matter... more
October 29, 2011
This is quite a situation that you are facing as I would not blow it out of proportion. The fact that he is looking at naked girls is a positive sign that he is still heterosexual and interested in your gender, assuming you are female. Sometimes, guys will develop a tendency to overestimate the physical aspects of a relationship to the point where they are jaded out and become robotic. Most guys do not change so I feel that you have two options here. First, you can satisfy your boyfriend from... more
October 28, 2011
There are many excuses that a boyfriend could use for why he was out or why he did not call you if he was cheating on you. One of the top excuses is usually that he had to stay late at work because usually you are not able to confirm this with anyone so he feels that he is in the clear with this excuse. Another excuse that your boyfriend may use is that he was out late with friends because he could have simply told his friends to cover for him in the case that you ask them about where he was. ... more
October 28, 2011
Men are normally very open and they often brag about themselves to others about their achievements, especially about their amorous conquests with girls. So, if you are really serious about your man, you could just talk to some of his best friends, colleagues, and people who are related to him. You can also talk to your fiance himself about his tastes, expectations, goals in life etc so that you could gauge him well as to how you two could get along after marriage. Some men would not be interested... more
October 27, 2011
Every marriage is different, because every couple is different…because every PERSON is just a little bit different. So why do we all try to force our marriages to work exactly the same? Most people get married and try to fall in to the roll of Perfect Spouse- we become dedicated, clingy, and in many cases, completely miserable because we’re play acting. The key to a successful marriage is honesty with our spouses and ourselves. Most couples would be a lot happier if they had a bit more... more
October 25, 2011
